Some blog posts are easy. This one isn’t.
After 20 years, Heather and I are ending our marriage. Without going into details, I’ll just say there is no particular ill will here, no fighting and few tears, but we have changed, our relationship has changed, and it is time to move on. For the moment we’re still in the same house, but Heather is looking to move out when it becomes feasible. Kenny will split his time between us as long as we live nearby one another. If Heather goes away to attend medical school, decisions will have to be made.
I hope those who are friends of both of us continue to be friends of both of us. Heather’s a good person and she’ll need her friends. As will I.